My number one pet peeve is when people just waste their time feeling sorry for themselves. Instead of moping around trying to get attention, why not actually do something about it?
Even if it’s simply just talking to someone about your problems. At least that would count for something.
People who just bring up their problems but then say “oh no im fine”, or “don’t worry about it”, seriously make me rage. Clearly I’m trying to help you but if you dont want to be helped I’m sorry I don’t have the time or energy to be part part of your pity party.